Okay, I'm needing some help here with a little baby name dilemma. So from the beginning, there has been ONE boy name Justin and I both agree has been "it" for our baby. Before we even knew he was a boy, I would accidentally call him by this name, sometimes in front of other people. We just liked the way it sounded and nothing else has seemed to fit like this name does. It's like finding your wedding dress early. You still want to go try on other wedding dresses just to make sure, but in the end you come back to that one dress that just screamed "I'm it!" Justin actually thought of it, or found it I guess you could say, a few months ago while watching Legends of the Fall. It's the name of the character played by Brad Pitt. If you've seen it you know what I mean. Every guy wants to be this character and every girl wants to date this character.Anyway, so back to my dilemma....the reason I can't type the name here in this post is because we cannot agree on how we want to SPELL it!! Our middle name is set for sure, Dean. It's Justin's grandpa's middle name and his brother's middle name too. We love it and its easy to spell! So we just need your help on the first name. (See the poll on the side). The main thing we don't want is for it to look girly! So many people have said "that can be a girl or boys name." No, we don't' want no girly boy name that's fo sho! But, I'm not opposed to having it a little different or unique too. And of course Justin and I think this not too girly, unique name should be spelled differently. So, I'm asking you guys. Maybe if there's a undeniable answer it will help us in our decision making. If you have another way not on the poll, let us know that too! I'll announce or final winner hopefully sometime soon! I'm so ready to know and be able to write it and put it on stuff! :) Thanks guys for your help!!!